In part one of this article, we discussed the various reasons behind why motherhood has become a burden and a sacrifice.
If you missed part one, please click here to read.
So what does it look like to be an awakened mother?
How do you become one?
How do you experience motherhood in a natural state of vibrancy and euphoria?
Ideally, you would have the opportunity to reach a higher level of consciousness even before conceiving a child. You would have become aware of the distorted familial patterns that you inherited and removed these to a large degree. Then you wouldn’t default to these old patterns, like most parents do when they’re under pressure, and you’d be free to raise your children differently to how you were raised.
As an awakened XI mother at a high level of consciousness, you send a pure resonance to your child, rather than burdening them with your distortions. Children understand their timeless identity, but they look to their parents to help them to understand their time-bound self, and how to define themselves in this reality. XI helps you to become a strong woman and a strong mother. Now, when the child observes that you are in time and resonating with precision, they copy that. If it’s a girl, they become a strong young woman and if it’s a boy they resonate as a strong young man.
Because children are so brilliant, they act as magnifiers and they shine a light on any remaining distortions that you, as a parent, need to release. An awakened mother in this scenario uses this as an opportunity to enhance herself. You become aware of the patterns, and do the necessary work to release them.
Children communicate on a very deep level, even before they can talk. A mother who is free from distorted programs picks up this communication clearly and knows what her child needs. As you take care of the needs of your child from this space, it doesn’t burden you, it actually awakens you both.
Of course children have physical needs such as food, shelter and clothing, but an awakened mother with a strong connection to her Pure Presence can provide spiritual nourishment for her child, which is of the utmost importance. Because you nourish them on such a deep level, from a place of pure unconditional love, a strong bond is created between you that just can’t be broken, whether you are separated physically or not.
An XI mother has the ability to provide that nurturing and nourishment for her child because she has nurtured herself first. When you make the relationship with your Higher Self the top priority, only then can you truly serve your children and those around you.
This is true selfishness, Divine selfishness and is a necessity in becoming an optimal mother.
When you have a deep spiritual connection with your child, you can re-experience yourself at a younger age–without burdening the child. For example, if your child is ten years old, you get to see yourself at that age, but from a higher level of consciousness. You see how you could have experienced your reality differently and so have the opportunity to heal and learn from this space.
As they reach the teenage years, most children start to separate from the mother, usually in an attempt to escape from the distorted patterns that they inherited from her. If you are an awakened XI Mother your child will still separate in their teenage years as they have to realize their independence and learn about themselves; but that strong bond remains, and the relationship becomes even stronger with time.
For those of you who don’t currently have that bond with your kids, it isn’t too late to recreate yourself as a strong mother, even if your children are older. As you reclaim yourself, it gives them the opportunity to let go of the patterns that they inherited from you, and then that strong connection is created.
When you practice XI, you become efficient with time. You’re in the present moment, the flow of life, and in this space things happen effortlessly. Now bringing the kids to their activities becomes a joy and it nourishes both of you.
When XI mothers get together, there is a shared vibrancy and you elevate each other to higher levels. In this situation, you don't have to cut other women down, get jealous, or control situations because you are secure in your space and feel true abundance from within.
When you're alone, you’re solid, even if you don’t see your children. When you’re connected to your higher self, you can never be lonely.
As you practice XI, you begin to understand yourself more and define yourself properly; first as a human female, second as a woman having an experience of being a mother. From this space, motherhood becomes euphoric. You feel alive, vibrant and sensual. You can raise strong, solid children and create that deep bond with them without burden or sacrifice, and the relationship is nourishing for you both. This is motherhood in its natural form, this is XI motherhood.