Sexual energy is one of the most potent forces in the universe. It’s a force that can either elevate or destroy you, so it’s important to use it in the proper way.
When two complete individuals who have the purest intent and who love each other come together, they combine and create a power that goes beyond their physical presence. It’s like a rocket booster that propels them to a higher level of consciousness.
How Sexual Energy Can Destroy Your Consciousness
Most individuals use sexual energy in the wrong way - to control and diminish other people.
As the world changes, people are increasingly losing control of themselves- and they are attempting to take back this control using sex. Men are trying to control women more, whereas women are withholding sex or trying to seduce men. If you use your sexual energy in this way, it will not only destroy your partner- it will also destroy you.
Polyamory is on the rise. That used to be seen as a male thing, but nowadays, many women are doing it as well. This usually comes from a place of incompleteness where people use their sexual energy or sexual dominance to degrade themselves.
Many women are insecure; they think that the only way they can have a relationship is by giving themselves away. So they have sex with a potential partner in the hope that person will want to stay with them.
Many men become really wealthy, and they marry somebody that's arm candy. She looks super hot, but they can't get along with her, and the sex is terrible.
In certain cultures, women often marry for security rather than love, and when they have sex, it destroys them.
Most individuals feel incomplete, and they look to another person to complete them. So when they have sex, they mingle with that person, and when they pull away, they feel distorted, even if the sex is hot. What happened is that they pulled in that other person's frequency to complete them. It's like getting a blood transfusion but with the wrong blood type. This is just a frequency transfusion, and it destroys you.
Fortunately, all these distorted patterns around sexual energy can be cleared out so that you come into your higher divinity and understand sex at a different frequency.
How Sexual Energy Can Elevate Your Consciousness
The first and most important step in using sexual energy to elevate your consciousness is to be a complete individual on your own.
When you are whole and complete on your own, then you can attract a partner who is also at an elevated level.
When two complete individuals who have the purest intent and who love each other come together, they combine and create a power that goes beyond their physical presence. It’s like a rocket booster that propels them to a higher level of consciousness.
This relationship provides a safe, loving environment which allows you to be vulnerable. In this space of vulnerability, you can see your own weaknesses as well as those of the other person. When there is no judgment on either side, there is an opportunity to transmute these weaknesses and turn them into strengths.
When you come together in intimacy and integrate on a physical and frequency level, your Spirits combine and mesh together. But when it's done, you separate and you begin to define who you really are. As you come apart, you both see your weaknesses and shortcomings and start to release them.
Your partner is helping you define who you are, and that's the ultimate goal. When somebody can help you to evolve into a higher version of yourself, you'll fall in love with them and you'll be soulmates forever. As that happens, they help you go higher, you help them go higher and you keep elevating. These types of relationships tend to be monogamous. The reason why you have multiple partners is that one person is not providing all those things that you need. So as you go higher and higher, you tend to stay with one partner for efficiency.
This is where sexual pleasure isn’t just physical, it becomes more conscious. You can get into expansive realities together and experience the euphoria of connecting with your Spirit. It enhances your brain chemicals, and you become more youthful and vibrant. In these high-level relationships, the passion doesn’t fade, and it actually increases over time. It's like falling in love with that person every day. But in reality, you're falling in love with your own self because it's a new version of you that keeps getting better. As you fall more in love with yourself, you’ll fall more in love with your partner as they have allowed you to reach that level.
That's how you can use sexual energy to define yourself and raise your consciousness.